Freewrite on: I believe premarital sex is destructive
Often, people have stated to me the idea that you should “try
out” your partner before getting hitched. The wrongness in this idea is that
this “try out” happens and then the thought changes to what’s the point of
getting married? The relationship is based on a physical attraction and this
eventually become old news. Old news becomes boring so time to go looking for
the next thing. When people choose to
reserve this intimate act of pleasure until marriage they are left to build a
relationship from a friendship and less hormones are intertwined with the relationship.
Love/sex hormones often lead to blindness in the lovers eyes. While under this love
blindness, people sometimes commit to marriage and after the hormones have worn
off the couple is left with nothing in common except what used to be
pleasurable sex. This situation is a major
factor in the staggering numbers of divorces in the past few years. I write
about this as it is a very sad situation I see on a daily bases. I do not mean
to judge. My parents developed their relationship thru letters (after meeting
during a family visit). The foundation of their relationship was built on their
friendship, not solely on the physical attraction:
something that will go away in time. Mind function, what are you sayingtalk to
meeeeeee I have volunteerd at a camp wher all the children attending have
single parents or parents in prision. I see the pain and huge voids they have
in their lives because of the broken covanent of their partens. One little girl
just wanted to sit in my lap the whole week to feel loved. She wanted her hair
braided she wanted to know how to be a little lady, she wanted to be loved. She
missed her real Mom, her step mom would never fill the crevasse she had in her
heart. The week I spent with this gilr and others girls like her brought me
face to face with how a brioken covenet of marriage or relationship rips the
hearts of children This caused me great pain to watch and I pray God can give
me the strength to never inflict my children with such pain and that I might
help live the ones that do have this void in their lives
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